Questions from Readers
This section is for you, the readers of my books, and the readers of this website, to ask questions about Vibrational Healing. Please send all questions to me via "Email Joy!" at the bottom of the side panel. Tell me if it's okay to use your real name. Please give your city and state or country. Your email address will not be used. Send a picture of yourself if you like. If you have answers or comments you'd like to add to mine, please send them along. I'll also bring in interesting questions from my Facebook blog.
From Petra Gottsmann in Massachusetts
I just have an important question to ask you; in my hospice work, how can I help the dying person to make it easier for them to let go and cross over??
Usually hospice patients are heavily drugged with morphine and they spend much of their last hours vacillating back and forth between the worlds. Even when they seem to be asleep you can tone for them, if you feel inspired, and they seem to like that. If they are agitated, blue light with the tone UUU, even done very softly, is calming. If their breathing is agitated, match your breath to theirs for a few minutes, and then gradually begin taking deeper breaths and they will align with you. Often just holding their hand is the greatest gift you can give.
From Mary Sloan in Raleigh, NC
Would anyone know of a citrine crystal or fluorite crystal turning dark or changing color after being gifted to a person who had recently been through a relationship-ending trauma and who was deeply affected by the incident?
Thanks for the great question, Mary.
Yes, my son Reuben gave me a fluorite cluster with a quartz inclusion that was deep purple and you could barely see through it. Within a month, it became translucent so you could easily see through it. (That made a believer out of him!)
A client told me about getting a lepidolite pendant for his wife (who was highly skeptical). She wore if for one day and it turned quite dark. By the end of the day, she was totally convinced of the healing power of rocks. But she never wanted to wear that pendant again because it felt like it had literally absorbed all of her skepticism.
Comment by Todd Taylor
Here's my thought on the subject. Citrine itself has changed to citrine, from temperature and pressure and such. What's energetically more high pressure and temperature altering than stress and trauma? My experience with flourite is that it absorbs well.
I have all kinds of crystals that have changed luminescence and features. Some have even materially transported. I know that sounds unnatural and easy to explain away, but once people stop denying the miraculous, it tends to happen.
Yes, Todd, I and many of my students have amazing stories to tell about crystals disappearing and then reappearing in totally different places. Please feel free to share your stories here!
Note from Joy: When students want to sign up for the Vibrational Healing Intensive, I ask them to fill out a Questionnaiare. One of the last questions on the Questionnaire is: "Ask Joy a good question." Here's one I really enjoyed, from an anonymous student:
Joy, why have you chosen Vibrational Healing over all other healing modalities? What is unique about Vibrational Healing?
What a wonderful question! I have to say that it is my own unique version of Vibrational Healing that most deeply fascinates me, because it is a combination of all the things that I find most interesting in the healing realms. First it focuses on the Underlying Cause of Dis-ease, and that is always a unique adventure, to discover why a person became ill. I get bored with anything that is repetitive, which is why I stopped specializing in massage, herbology, and acupuncture. Vibrational Healing is more like being a detective. We use lots of different tools to thoroughly explore the source of the problem, including visualization, past life work, core belief work, and chakra diagnosis—every one of which can cause dramatic changes for the client.
Second, we use the chakra system, which allows us to work simultaneously on every level, because the lower chakras give insight into physical problems, the middle chakras involve the emotions, and through the higher chakras we can explore the mind and spirit.
Third, we use the vibratory tools to help remove the old dysfunctional patterns, and then again to bring in more harmonious frequencies. Since all life begins with vibration, frequency is at the essence of changing life patterns. In truth, all this work can be done effectively without the vibratory tools, but when we combine the work with sound, color, aromas, and crystals, it is amazing to see that the work goes from 2-20 times faster.
I love to witness profound transformations in my clients and students, and so far this combination of tools is the best that I have found to achieve that end.
Fourth, Vibrational Healing work is not limited to working with those who are sick. It can also be used preventatively, ideally at each change of season, and whenever there is undue stress.
And finally, Vibrational Healing can be used to support clients in the next stage of their spiritual unfoldment. We do this through Spiritual Journeys, which are like a waking dream in which you follow your own Life Path, meeting your Spirit Guides and having profound adventures along your way.
The beauty of my program is that you get to experience all of these modalities yourself, while learning how to do them for your clients.
from Linda Nidal (Australia)
I love crystals and can drum and sound is there any way I can heal my broken capillaries and varicose veins really awfull especially around ankles I'm very self conscious about them. Western medicine has failed me. At present I am putting apple cider vinegar on them. Have always felt it is my responsibility to heal them inherited from my mother but I don't want them. Have your book Vibrational healing through the Chakras love it picked it up by chance a few days ago.
It’s funny — I just finished watching an old Australian film, We of the Never Never, (1982) when I got your email. I love that film, because several of the aborigines in the movie remind me of people that I met in Alice Springs when I taught at the school there for a couple of weeks. The children touched me so deeply, and watching this movie brought it all back.
Linda, for your varicose veins, I would try vitamin E, alpha tocopherols. Start with 200 IU per day for 6 weeks. Then increase to 400 for 6 weeks, etc. til you are taking 800 daily.
Also try kicking. Put a big pillow in the corner of a room and kick it. Think of anything or anyone you might be pissed at and kick it and make noise. Do that every day until you’ve cleared out anything you’re pissed about. And walk. While you’re walking, visualize the blood flowing down your legs and into your toes, and flowing back up your legs. Sing to your blood vessels. Tell them to regrow and sing to heal them. Rest for 5 minutes every hour, with your legs elevated.
Use essential oils to gently massage your legs, especially upward, to increase the circulation. Lemon, cypress and peppermint, a few drops of each in a carrier oil like jojoba or almond. Indigo light directed at the legs is also beneficial. Be patient. It may take a long time to see major improvement, but you should certainly be able to prevent it from getting worse.
Most important, you need to eliminate any old Core Beliefs about how “My mother had it, and now so will I.” It doesn’t help to decide not to think that way. You need to find the underlying subconscious beliefs and then work with those Core Beliefs to change them. I can do that with you over the phone if you like.
Ruth, it sounds to me like the girl blames herself for the divorce and is subconsciously trying to punish and hurt herself. The same is probably true for her mother.